Category Archives: Unemployment

Life Among the Underemployed – Psychic Shock

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You may notice a change in the headline.  It should have come up sooner but I’m still wrapping my head around it.

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I am no longer technically “unemployed”.

I never appeared in the government’s unemployment statistics for the simple reason that I never qualified for them.  While I have certainly BEEN unemployed since November, I was not among the statistics.

Back in February, my status changed.  I even talked about it here.  After undergoing the necessary background check, health check, and application process, I became a substitute teacher in the local school district.

But I still thought of myself as “unemployed”.  In reality, I was bringing in a regular check.  Well, the check was regular, even if the amount wasn’t.

By definition “underemployment” is – “the condition in which people in a labor force are employed at less than full-time or regular jobs or at jobs inadequate with respect to their training or economic needs”.

That’s me.  Employed at less than full time at a job that is inadequate to our financial needs.

We’re paying our bills, but having to dip into our reserves every month to do it.

I’ve applied for 60 jobs, I’ve gotten one interview.  For a job that would have made our lives and finances worse rather than better.  I never hear back from most of them.  It’s a grind.  One that is beginning to wear me down.

There’s a part of me that is dealing with a change in my fundamental belief in my future.  This isn’t the future I believed was coming.  I’m not sure I’m capable at this point of putting into words the paradigm shift that I’m in.  You work hard, you get an education, you work hard some more.  There will be some dips along the way, but in the end, everything will work out.  Hard times are for people who weren’t blessed with the starting point I had.  It was supposed to be a kind of insurance policy against hard times.

It was always a lie.  But it was a comforting lie and so I believed.  Having that belief taken away carries an enormous psychic shock that I am only just beginning to confront.  It makes everything harder.

There’s a story that I have repeated for years.  I remember it being told to me as “an old Indian tale”, but I have no idea if that’s true.  It’s the story that I cling to at moments like this.  The story goes as follows:

One day Rabbit was out foraging for food and didn’t notice how far he had gotten from his burrow.  Suddenly, Wolf sprang out from the bushes, jaws snapping.  Off went Rabbit as fast as he could go with Wolf just a half step behind.  As he ran, Rabbit passed the burrow of one of his brother rabbits, who watched the chase coming towards him.  He looked at Rabbit, and he looked at the distance to the burrow, and he looked at how close Wolf’s teeth were to his friend.  As Rabbit raced by, the other rabbit called out, “Do you think you’ll make it?”

To which Rabbit responded, “What choice do I have?”

I’m tired.  And scared. And angry.

But what choice do I have?

 

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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Life Among the Unemployed – Making Hard Decisions

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Unemployment is not a straight line experience.  It changes as you go along, and that means decisions have to be made. Often hard ones.

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It’s time to acknowledge a decision I’ve made with my family.

For the moment, I am not pursuing youth ministry positions around the country.  If something were to pop up here in the Richmond region, I would certainly consider it.  But we’ve decided that we don’t want to pack up and move again.  Our goal was to move down here and make this our home long term.  The very thought of starting again is like a great stone in our bellies.  For better or worse, we will make our stand here.

It’s not a decision I come to easily.  I still love working with young people.  Those chances to discuss faith and life with young people are deeply missed.  For whatever reason God has put a great love for young people in my heart.  Through those young people, my own faith has been deepened and strengthened in ways I can not even begin to describe to you.

The other side of the coin is complicated.  I have reservations (is that a nice enough word?) about my departure from each of my professional ministry positions.  I’m not going to go into those here and now.  I accept that I bear some responsibility in both cases.  That still leaves me with issues about how the end came to be.  A different topic for a different day.

Here’s what really weighs on me at this point.  Having to break away from the young people in both of those ministries broke my heart.  It happened twice in a span of fewer than three years.  There can be no doubt that making a clean break is important for them.  It doesn’t make it easy or painless.  I’m a hurting puppy and that alters my ability to step back into another ministry.  To try and pretend otherwise is to be dishonest with myself, with any congregation or diocese, and with the young people.  For the moment, I need to heal.  There may be opportunities for me to support others in youth ministry.  I look forward to that possibility.  At the moment, we have just joined a new congregation.  The standards that I helped to create require a one year “waiting period” before becoming involved with youth ministry.  That strikes me as a very good policy and a personal discipline that I need to follow.

So it’s career change time again.  My resume describes an interesting and fairly unique career path.  It is one that has played strongly to my communication skills, my ability to relate to others, to work both as a team member and a leader, and displays a flexibility to adapt.  I’m hoping that there is a company or organization that is looking for just that kind of person to help them achieve their goals.  Anyone interested can check me out at my LinkedIn profile page.

This has not been an easy decision.  A part of me cries out at the idea of stepping away.  Yet there is no doubt in mind my it is the decision I need to make right now.  Keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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Life Among the Unemployed – Trying Something New

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In my last post in this series a couple weeks back, I mentioned that I had begun the process of becoming a substitute teacher in the local school district.

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All that paperwork, fingerprinting, background check and TB testing has been completed.  I have a week of subbing under my belt as well.

It’s harder than you might think.

I sat in for a 4th-grade teacher this past week.  Worked with the kids all day on science and other subjects.  It was a mental challenge because, well, they’re fourth graders.  The closest thing to perpetual motion machines ever created by mankind.  Plus we’re having an early spring hereabouts.  My Fitbit registered 8,000+ steps during school that day.  Roughly four miles.

The job is mentally and physically challenging.  You are pretty much alone.  The school expects that you can handle the class and don’t require much, if any, assistance.  As a brand new sub, I’m walking into buildings where I don’t know where the office, the teacher’s restrooms, or anything else is.  You don’t know the students, and until you hit the classroom you have no idea what you are going to be doing.  Oh, and making sure you park in the right place and come in the proper door is a challenge as well.  If you’re not good at dealing with the unknown, this is probably not the job for you.

So far, I’ve done high schools twice, middle school and elementary school once each.  I sat in the back while a student teacher handled the class, subbed for half of a teaching team (and the regular teacher did all the “heavy lifting”), the fourth graders and tenth grade English.  Four different schools, each with a slightly different way of handling substitute teachers.

For high school I had to be there around 7 AM, elementary school didn’t start till 9.  Twice I’ve had lunch with other teachers, twice in the classroom.

My respect for teachers continues to grow.

In the meantime, it’s putting a little extra money in the bank account.

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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Life Among the Unemployed – Unpleasant Surprise

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Unfortunately, today’s report isn’t good news.  With my severance package drawing to an end, it was time to sign up for Unemployment Compensation.  A pain in the butt (filling out governmental forms always is) but no big deal.  I’ve done it before.  In fact, in many ways, Unemployment is infinitely easier than it was the first time I went on it back in 1983 or so.  At that time, you had to show up, in person, every week to make your claim.  There was a small card you had to present, along with your assurances that you were actively searching for work.

Today, it’s all done online.  The rules said I have to apply for a minimum of two jobs per week.  I’m averaging more than twice that.  Easy peasy.

We went away for a long weekend to see some old friends and had a great time.  That ended with a crash when I opened the letter from the Virginia Employment Commission.  Because I worked for the church, and churches are exempt from paying unemployment tax, I am ineligible for unemployment compensation in the Commonwealth of Virginia.  Congress included that exemption in the original legislation that set up the system decades ago.  Non-profits are often included as well.  They can choose to pay the tax but most do not.  I want to note that the Roman Catholic Diocese of Richmond has set up a program to make sure that lay employees are eligible for this program.

My feelings about the church, in general, choosing this path of “care” for its employees are waaaaay to complex to take on right here and now.  Perhaps another day and time.  Most folks make a lot of sacrifices to do God’s work on a professional basis.  This just seems like the final insult.  As I said, a topic for another day.

What this means is that in the short run, things are much more urgent than before (and they were urgent then).  We are tapping into savings and lines of credit in ways that I don’t like.  At the moment we have no choice.

On the bright side, I am applying to become a substitute teacher in the local school district.  It fits my experience and skills and can bring in some short term money, while we search for a long-term solution.  There are a few other ideas we are exploring as well.  Not fun.

 

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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Life Among the Unemployed – Networking It

I’m gong to make these posts occasional from here on out.

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At the moment, there’s just not a lot to report on.  I”m still grinding away, applying for any job that looks interesting or for which I may be even somewhat qualified.

I am discovering the joys of networking!  There is a great organization here in Richmond called “Synapse“, a professional networking organization.  I was invited to attend a meeting and they blew me away.  Unfortunately, it’s pretty expensive for an unemployed person.  Maybe someday.

It did result in some new connections and I following up on those, so we’ll see.

Outside of that, it’s mostly the usual irrational anxiety.  “What if the only job I get offered is one I hate?”.  Silly stuff.

 

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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Life Among the Unemployed – End of the Year

There’s really nothing to report.

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I look at all the sites I can think of, and apply for anything that looks even vaguely in my area.  But this is a terrible time to be unemployed.  Even the jobs listed won’t be filled till the New Year.

Meanwhile, Christmas will still be Christmas, just a little leaner.  That’s fine.

 

But it’s no damn fun.

 

Unless something really interesting comes along, I’m going to give this series a rest into that new year.

Somewhere out there is the need for a great story teller.  They probably don’t think about their opening in that way, but it is.  And I will find them.

Have a wonderful holiday, however you may celebrate it (or not).

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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Life Among the Unemployed – The Grind Rewarded?

Back to the grind.

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That’s the reality of being unemployed.  It’s a grind.  The only way to come through this process is by putting my head down, shoulder to the wheel, nose to the grindstone…

Blah, blah, blah.

You win this process by grinding.  By working hard every day that you’re not working.  Look for everything, everywhere and hope.

Hope for that one, perfect job.

I stumbled on just such an opening last week.  A job that is profoundly well suited to ALL of my experience.  One that speaks to my passions.  The kind of job possibility that keeps you up at night thinking about it.

So I refuse to think about it.  Oh, I applied for it, you can count on that!  One of the things I’ve learned in my three previous rides on this carousel is that you can make yourself crazy.  It can get so bad that you stop looking at other possibilities, just to make sure you’re available when they call about THIS one.

Then it goes to someone else.  Even if I get this one, it means someone else is out there feeling crushed that they didn’t get it.  So I finish my application, submit my forms and go straight back to the grind.

It is a really cool job, that I can absolutely do, and one I (think)(hope)(believe) I would love.

And if I get it, I’ll tell you all about it.

In the meantime, we grind.

 

So I will keep my head up, my eyes open, my heart strong.

Waiting to see the next chapter in my life.

Whatever it turns out to be.

And I’ll keep you up to date on how that goes.

Peace.

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